How could she take my boys away from me with him..? Part of the fantasy…?
I would love to share with you my thoughts on that, except with the electronic censoring on this forum I'm afraid it would just look something like this "***** ****** *** ****". That is so incredibly disrespectful to you and the kids that I can barely hold my tongue. At least my XW had the courtesy to keep OM away from the kids until well after our D, and they never did go on a vacation together. Your W really takes the cake, her selfishness is frankly outrageous. Very sorry you're being put through this, a stray dog would no doubt get more compassion from her. Hang in there buddy, you are strong, you can do this!
