Wife wants to leave marriage 4

[Treasur]

Gosh, I don't know, Tread...how can you know what the consequences will be for all of these folks? And how will it help you DB or help your sitch practically?

I had to think very hard and calmly last year when I got anonymous death threats, my first evidence really of a probable OW. Or that my H had sent them but my gut said not. I had a bunch of choices and I wasn't sure what to do. I needed to not deny the reality but I was in shock and had a bunch of emotions spinning.

Took me about a week but in the end I decided to do a couple of simple things to keep myself safe just in case...but my No. 1 was that I refused to feed the crazy darkness of it. I just refused to feed it. That was about who I chose to be not the sitch.

Please think slow, and when in doubt, nothing is often a good choice.