Today was interesting. Started off with W making breakfast and complimenting on my weight loss. She also questioned if my next goal was to get back to my old run time of 1 mile in 6 minutes. The last time I did this was around 19 and 20 years old. Right now my time is a 1 mile in 10 minutes. From there W spent the early part of the day just joking and laughing with him. Also she talked work related stuff, which I validated. Kind of goes against detachment in my opinion, but I entertained her.
Then after all that, W goes off to the bathroom where I can hear her messaging and laughing with OM. How someone over a phone can have that much influence will forever leave me baffled. But I chose not to focus on it, since I had plans this evening to GAL. Got dressed up and W was clearly interested in knowing where I was going. And after I returned home, W was interested in hearing about my night.
Sandi, I know you were mentioning on another thread that the WW has to lose something. Even if they have no clue what it is. At some point, probably towards the end of the divorce. I plan on contacting OM family, letting them know of the A. My W has made it a point to get close to these people as if they are her new family. By letting them know what she has been doing with him would quickly shut down the A. Not to mention those folks would disassociate themselves with my W ASAP. Figured that would be the start to having her snap out of this fog. Problem is that by that time, I probably wouldn't be too concerned with getting the MR on track.
