Thanks TX, my friends wont let me think about R while there! They don't quite understand my sitch and generally think I should tell her to hit the road but they been overall supportive. So Ill be surrounded by descent guys and definitely plan on sowing a little bit of oats! Only bummer is that I thought is was in couple weeks but its not until 9/21 so I got a little while longer.
In other news, she has called me twice this week for no apparent reason. She texts 99.9% of the time. There was no purpose of the calls but I was sure to cut the calls short and say I had to run.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
