Please don't give up if you love your wife, do everything you can at least for another year. Continue with the DRing and GAL with your D and continue to improve yourself as you have the opportunity to show this with the interaction you are bound to have when S comes by.
Think to yourself "look what's back out on the market and what you've given up" when she's around be confident happy and aloof, always smile and continue to have a PMA.
It can happen just be patient and give it time...
Come on we can do this, take care.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".