Roist,

Thank you. What you say makes sense. Maybe we'll meet some day and I can tell you the rest of the story. Sorry to hijack.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving