I don't get any of this stuff around divorce. Mine goes through spurts of D talk. Wanted it from Oct to Dec when he was with OW1. Didn't seem to want it Jan to June 2017. Now July/Aug with OW2 claims to want it. But won't go to a lawyer (as far as I know), won't tell me what he doesn't like about separation contract.
Have no idea why some run out and file right away and see it through. Others, like yours file and let it sit, and then the ones like mine who won't do it even when you beg them to. I swear it has become a running joke among everyone who knows me.
I try to focus on what do I need to live my life. Thankfully the time has been a godsend. I was not able to deal with this in January 2016. It has taken me this long to be mentally and financially ready.
What are your feelings about it? What do you want?
