Cherry! OMG I am stoked to see you! I was VERY resentful for WH checking out (and staying away in another state for weeks at a time) when DS1 was an infant. Hang in there, eventually they will play together for HOURS and leave you in peace, lol!
Your WH is a...well I can't type things like that on this board. You, on the other hand, are amazing and I am privileged to "know" you. Do you have support?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3