Woundedfool your right i was having one of those moments. Spent the day with the w for the most part things went good. Its the good byes that seem to go sideways.
I asked her if there was any thing i could do for her or if she had any concerns. She raised her voice in anger and repeatedly said i just dont know i just dont know. I changed the subject by saying smiles and laughs well together is a good start lets keep tring to have positive visits like that she drove away at that point.