I would hold off on volunteering for deployment, or any other major decisions at this point. However there are things that could work and make a difference. I suggest you mention this to your DB coach, as they are experts in looking at what has happened to bring you to this point in your relationship and what is the best way to interact with her, so that you are most likely to bring her closer and not push her any further away. Your coach's expertise will help you come up with a very specific plan (that may be counter intuitive to what you feel like saying and doing) on how to best turn things around.
Cristy
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