I figure half of what I'm doing is working. I think. If I only knew which half, I could cut out the other half.
Sandi said somewhere else that the LBH usually initially suspects a MLC. As did I 4 years ago. I soon discovered a EA.
This time it is the opposite. 1st suspected A, now IDK but she did just lose a friend, trade the SUV for a mini cooper. And we have D leaving for college. may be MLC. Last time she started working out, not so much this time.
I've definitely increased the mystery. Both in my passive responses as well as my schedule. I would be more likley to suspect cake eating had I not seen a return of empathy. She asks if I need anything from the store. Something I can't see her faking. I guess I will continue until something changes.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
