he may even feel he's being helpful so that if you remark negatively, he can point and say "SEE? She's never happy!"
Maybe say "h, that's helpful and I thank you for that. Next time please give me notice so I can be there with the kids".
AND OR don't be there...
and say - "H, Wish I'd known ahead of time b/c I already have plans. Can YOU be home for that appointment? Thanks!."
And say nothing else - but do Not be at home.
Just an idea
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
