Be active not re-active. Be active on GAL and kicking butt, which is attractive. She needs to get further along before you change anything. Her signs seem positive and confusing at the same time: but it doesn't change what you should be doing.
Be active not re-active. So true, yet so hard. I think the book says the slightest change done consistently will be noticed. I have found this to be the case.
As for GAL, I've always kind of had my own thing. I'm self-employed (good and bad) and have flexibility in my schedule. Read a lot and play golf for fitness several times a week. I have cigar friends that I meet up with, etc.
One change that I have made is, I believe that I had fallen into a habit of complaining. In an effort to gain attention or respect I began b!tching and moaning more. I have stopped this. (Who wouldn't appreciate, right?)
I have re-started IC this next week. She knows as I didn't want it to be a surprise and secret. She can keep the secrets.
I believe the biggest thing that she may have noticed is the difference in my reaction this go-round.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
