The situation seems very stuvk at the moment. My wife is is very angry refusing to talk or see councellors even though I have found a very good couple eho are both experinced (both professionally and in overcoming personal traumas). How do I change thr situation and my wifes determination to go through with divorce. She seems to be sleep walking towards mediation (kust sorting out mechanicd of D) and be ptepared to do anything regardless of its impact on the children and hrrself). It seems to be impossible to break through her force field. She will not tolerate anything that may disrupt her dissision.How can I break through and make hrr start to reconsider? She seems seems hell bent on going for D regardless of cost!!