The book does say monitor and adjust, but it seems like progress is being made so don't worry about adjustment until the methods don't work. Also "adjust" means adjust the DB principals, and the way I read it, DB isn't concerned about right and wrong, it is just concerned with what works.
I agree that these seem to be positive signs, but it seems kind of early for her to be truly coming out of the tunnel. Also, it is clear she isn't there yet; so what could you really do DB-wise? Nothing that I know of, so don't worry about it.
Be active not re-active. Be active on GAL and kicking butt, which is attractive. She needs to get further along before you change anything. Her signs seem positive and confusing at the same time: but it doesn't change what you should be doing.
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