Looking for some advice

[mxdup]

Thanks guys. While it does sound like she's mean from what I shared, you are only hearing my side.

I have stopped doing all of the chores, now that she is working less she can do her share. I do realize the vets would probably say to decline and GAL. I feel as though deliberately going out when I have no plans to just because she is home is like hiding from her. Tonight just happens to be a night when we both plan on being around the house.

This GAL thing is really hard for me. I have been going out with the guys regularly (at least once a week) since this all started months ago and I'm already sick of that environment. With that said my counselor is telling me that I should only do what I want to do. I don't like to go out all the time. It's a waste of money and I feel like I'm doing something I'm not wanting to do or trying to be someone or something I'm not. It reminds me of my single days and I was miserable then. I'd much rather go to the gym or do something on my own. I went to the gym last night.