I had a session with my IC yesterday. Things went okay and we talked about me establishing boundaries for when W becomes nasty, snarky, or pushes conversations that I'm not ready to have. So that helped me get some confidence about dealing with her.
Not many developments otherwise lately. I do get emotional when I think about my kids, but they're out of town for the week and I've been avoiding W like the plague at home. GAL every night this week - working out or meeting friends out for dinner and drinks.
W apparently had someone drop off some moving boxes at the house, so she's planning on packing up something, even though she said she intends to stay in the house. She did take down the framed wedding photos we had in the hall, and I saw no trace of them in the house. Not that I really wanted them or cared to look at them any more. But I do think she's trying to do some things to stick it in my face.
Interestingly, I think a girl I work with might be flirting with me (remember, I stopped wearing my ring the day W said she wanted a D). I know it's far too early in my sitch, but I really enjoyed realizing that I'm still desirable to members of the opposite sex!
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18