How should I handle the Mrs wanting to hang out as friends? She asked me if I wanted to go see a movie with her tonight.
mxdup,
I don't know what to tell you about going with her to the movie. What concerns me is that you feel like she's been pushing you away for the past year and that she's been working more hours during that time. Those are both indicators that there's a third party in the mix (even though she claims otherwise). Her reasons for wanting a divorce seem rather hollow. It's the kind of stuff both of you could work on and resolve. My feeling is that she's trying to keep you in the friend zone because she's not yet fully committed to whomever it is that she met at work.
As usual, my disclaimer is that I'm often wrong; be sure to get input from others.
