We are still not separated. She wants reassurance that I will not leave her down the path. I told her that I was 100% committed to making things work and I have no intentions on leaving her.
**** Another words she wants you to stick around and be plan B if plan A doesn't work out.*******
Should I romance her?
****** No that would be pursuit and that is the worst thing you can do right now.*********
Do I look unattractive by trying to work things out when she knows I know she has been emotionally unfaithful?
****** Yes it does. It makes you look weak. *******
Chanove,
First off I am really sorry you are here. But this forum can change your life!
Your best bet is to stop all pursuit, detach and get out and start to make an awesome life for you and your kids. Get in shape, go out with your guys friends, do some adventurous things and most importantly be mysterious. It is very important to know that you can't nice her back by giving her your car or doing chores around the house or romancing her.
