One more question, from a legal standpoint.....

If in the future, I had sex with my H, would that invalidate any claims down the road that adultery could be brought up in a court battle? It seems that I've read on here, that it would invalidate that argument, because it would mean I had "forgiven" him? Maybe I dreamed that.

I sure wouldn't want to give up that Ace up my sleeve for a roll in the hay. If I'm honest, that's one of the things that stopped me this past Monday, because I sure wanted to give in to that chemistry.


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton