Still completely confused here.

We are still not separated. She wants reassurance that I will not leave her down the path. I told her that I was 100% committed to making things work and I have no intentions on leaving her. We are going on a date Friday night. She is upset that I started smoking again (we quit years ago), so I'm going to quit. It's a nasty habit anyway.

I'm very confused on what to do because she hasn't separated or left yet. She says she wants to work things out, but I'm more concerned after reading this forum. It doesn't "feel" like she does and I'm afraid she stringing me along.

Most of the advice on here is what to do after she leaves.

What do I when we are still together??

Should I romance her?

Do I look unattractive by trying to work things out when she knows I know she has been emotionally unfaithful?