In second therapy she decided: marriage cannot be saved, and since she can't divorce due to finance reasons only option is living together as friends for benefit of the child.
This is the problem with MC with a WAS, they feel like it forces them into a decision and that decision is never FOR the marriage.
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Therapist also noticed that she has few clients that have same school as my W and that she has not heard anyone complaint of not being able to find job, and asked my wife to question if the problem is in her.
Well it's good that the C was challenging her, but that's probably why she cries all day afterwards is she feels like everyone is ganging up on her. Hopefully she'll seek out IC as it sounds like she desperately needs it.
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Last 2 weeks were ok, we even had sex few times and she seemed happy.
So she's on board with living together, doing things as a family, and having sex with you. But she doesn't think the M can be saved. LOL! I swear there is no figuring out WAS logic.
What are you doing for YOU? What are your GAL activities?
