Good job, Leah. You basically DB'd like a pro and gained some insight and clarification in the process. I won't repeat what others have said as you know how to protect yourself. I'm proud of you.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3