Thanks mv. The problem I've had for a while is that I always equated "standing up" to my W with being mean or confrontational when really it's just about enforcing boundaries and not waffling. I'm slowing getting better...
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14