Witnessing the pain and confusion here is hard sometimes, but at the same time, seeing the kindness and generosity of strangers is heartwarming.

Many of our spouses, for a variety of reasons, seem to be lost in a very self-obsessed place. Perhaps what we are trying to do here is help each other not let our own pain make us as selfish, and try to use life s**t as fertiliser?


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17