Lots of musing in the back of my head. Suddenly realised that, bar his job (and massive debts), my H has recreated at 38 his life circumstances at 18. Nothing of his own, camping at his aunt's apartment, a home, car and lifestyle provided and financed by OW. Odd.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17