Tread, you still sound pretty angry with W, and I totally get it. Anger and frustration are hard to avoid in these situations. I would just caution to step back and take a deep breath before rushing the D through though. If you can center yourself and think calmly and rationally and you still want D, then by all means proceed. But I think right now your decisions are emotionally based. Very sorry you're going through this, I know sometimes just getting it over with seems to be the answer but there's no quick and easy solution.