Yes Jim, I'm also overwhelmed by the pain caused by all our sitches. Sometimes when I'm really down, I have to take a break from the site so I don't feel crushed by all the pain.
The selfishness of our S's is staggering. The person we loved is gone. My W used to teach kids religious classes at our local church. Now she doesn't seem to even care about her own kids.
My personal take on it is there's no point to all the pain. But we can try to take advantage of our sitches, be a light to others, and grow as people in the process.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
