Hello...can you hear me?

[Georgiabelle]

Aw, sorry Maybell. I wasn't trying to be depressing. I have just seen several women in my life who don't take someone at their word when it comes to life goals.

I know on this site we say to not believe anything they say and only half of what they do. However, my experiences when it comes to general dating is that if a guy ever said to me that he didn't want to get married or have kids, I took it one of two ways. A) he didn't want those things or B) he didn't see himself doing those things with me. Either way, I felt no desire to convince them otherwise. Some of the women I know will always say "he may come around " (whatever that means or "he may change his mind." Both may be true. My personality was not to be the one to test those theories out ;-). But I see many women do that and on occasion, a guy as well.