Thanks Tx, T, and Sandi. All three replies were basically the same so thanks for the 2X4. Yeah I'm good at convincing myself my way is better. With that being said I admit I was wrong. So wrong in fact, it made me feel worse about myself than when I started. She actually almost had me convinced that its rude of me to not be friends with her if we D. Every time we have a convo its how she is the victim and affair is justified. Meanwhile I have been indirectly giving her permission to keep doing what's she's doing and be friends with her H all at the same time. If this was a reality TV show Id be laughed off the set. Thank you again for being a direct as possible. This will change today. Not just saying it because you said it. I've had enough being on the wrong side of the joke.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
