Well, I just confronted W about applying for an apartment. Told her weeks ago that we should talk about major decisions before any of us does anything. Especially when it involves money. You ask her a question and she simply stares at you with a dumb a** look on her face. Its like what I say just goes over her freaking head. Then she states that "You wanted me to leave." So I respond "When you said you wanted a divorce, I clearly assumed that you wanted to leave. So I'm giving you what you want."
This woman looks me in the face and says "But I never said I wanted to leave." So at this point, I'm holding my head in my hands. And I simply ask what is it that she wants? Once again the look of defiance. And a refusal to answer a simple question. Once again I ask what is that you need me to do to help you achieve your goal? So she finally answers "I want you to work with me work on this divorce process."
So guess what she's going to get her wish, starting with my meeting with this lawyer tomorrow evening. W is going to learn to be careful what she wishes for. Going to start with moving all of her stuff out of the MBR and into the office. Going to make things real official for her. W had the audacity to say that she doesn't like me following her around and looking over her shoulder. I haven't done those things in months. But every time I walk into the room, she's hiding that damn phone. Because she knows she's up to no good.
Then had the nerve to ask about me about keeping an eye on everything she does like the bank account. Told her "You damn right I don't completely trust you. You lost that trust when you decided to keep in communication with OM. You showed where your loyalties lie." Then she had the nerve to tell me that she wasn't in communication with OM. Which I know is a lie, unless she stopped talking to him recently. But I know they were communicating back in early July.
And to think for a brief moment I had doubts about seeing this lawyer tomorrow. Thinking that maybe I should be more patient. But some people don't respond well to kindness. You have to be harsh with them, because that's all they know and have proven to only respect that type of behaviour.
