Okay, I won't say anything... my dad said the same, he doesn't want him getting suspicion, he said it will hit him harder out of the blue. Yes, my dad will definitely be here. I wouldn't feel comfortable being here alone god forbid there was some he said she said nonsense, not that there has every been any violence but better safe than sorry.
I go in on Thursday to turn in my paperwork and have the petition notarized. i had to sell a few things before filing
Your H and mine sound similar in that they are nice, friendly, almost like you would think he is having second thoughts.. but it's just because things are going his way, when it's not going his way or he gets bad news he is a big jerk and shuts down.
Haha.... I always say that about my diet. I'll start tomorrow or the same with the gym. I know what I have to do deep down.
I genuinely don't feel like he will immediately come back. I really really truly don't even feel like that's a possibility. It hadn't even crossed my mind until you said something. I can guarantee I would NOT take him back at that time. My dad has already said he will move out if I take H back so it is not something that I can make a snap decision of. I hadn't even thought of what it would look like. He would have to leave his job. He makes insane $$ and I'm not sure he would easily replace his current position and salary. And will there always be a boss with a willing daughter?
I will take the sessions if you genuinely aren't going to use them BUT if you do decide you want more in the future you allow me to pay.
Oh by the way I don't know if I told you but the attorney I ended up using was the one recommended by Elaine silver that you recommended me to. Elaine called me the other day to see how I was doing haha. So thank you for that.