Originally Posted By: hoosjim

What if she says "I want to go back to marriage counseling and give it another shot?"


I'm going to assume that at some point you stated to her that you would not be in an open M. So how about responding with something like:

I've told you I will not be in an open marriage; going to MC implies that I am trying to work on rebuilding our M.

M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized