It is so true. Last time when my H came around it wasn't because I was at his beckon call it was because I was busy and moved forward with my life. Sure I still cared about him but he didn't know it. I treated him like a neighbor but didn't engage in conversation and was just genuinely busy with my life. I was on my phone smiling texting while we were around each other, etc.
Trust me -- she is going to notice. You are the better man, we all know it, she just can't see that right now because she hasn't 'lost' you. YET
