Wow, Treasur, this is what happens when I take a break from the forum for a few days. I see where you posted on my thread earlier today, and with all this sh1tstorm going on in your life, I'm even more appreciative of you taking the time to encourage me! I'm so sorry I haven't been here to chime in on this discussion. And don't forget to add me to the girls get-together! Seriously, my heart breaks for you. I see so much of my own self-talk in your words. The Vanishers are so cold and heartless- but I do think it's easier to let go of them in the long run. I've kind of been back and forth with one, and I do believe it hurts less, without the constant push and pull of hope. You hang in there in your cottage by the sea. We can do hard things. We will get to MEH. XOXO
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton
