Leah the benefits and finances you have are unusual but make me feel way more comfortable for you.
You have a good head on your shoulders and btw, let him think you date. Maybe you will.
(Why explain now, only to modify it later when you do date? Best to leave it alone since it's none of his business anyhow).
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