So, WW mentioned a "Bird Nesting" arrangement for our house, kind of co-ownership post divorce to keep the kids in their home and WW and I would be the ones that share the house. I have read up on this, it is complicated, financial,taxes, so on so forth all in an attempt to stabilize the kids. This all came up because both WW wife and I will be unable to purchase homes within our school district which would most likely mean our kids will need to change schools. Now WW actually is concerned about something other than herself, all the "support friends" who told her the kids will be fine may not be so fine after all, these friends won't be there for my kids when they lose most of their friends let alone the therapy sessions we now have to pay for. So she is concerned, she is really pushing this co-owning the home, her lawyer will be sending info to my lawyer about this. I may be wrong here but this sounds like she see's me as a safety net, I am not on board with this plan, I'm sure she will tell me that because I don't want this the kids will suffer, I will then need to remind her yet again in a calm manner that none of this would be happening if she didn't stray from our marriage, and that she has no intention of working on it. None of what WW says to me has her taking any blame for what she has done and is doing, it's all on me, just not the case and she will know it! Let the fun begin, I'm so glad one of my GAL is working out and getting back in shape! I am now prepared for this battle, sure hope it doesn't come to that.
