I understand where you are coming from. Did you two ever discuss any OW?
While I support the R aspects of this, fully, please please watch the finances. More than you think you should.
Do whatever you need to do so that you are certain you are financially safe.
The thing you are sure of right now is that he is not committed to the m.
So please just check and protect yourself.
Otherwise you sound like you handled it really well.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016