Well, my job prospect hit a snag today. I may have to relocate 2.5 hours away, which puts me in a conundrum about how my W and I will sort out custody.
I can't remember if you have an L, but this is definitely something to discuss with one if you do. The court will very likely look unfavorably on you moving away for a job and award your wife full custody with you maybe getting every other weekend. If your L confirms that you've got to ask yourself if the job is worth losing custody to you. Definitely a tough decision, sorry you're having to go through this!