wow Cali that Christy and Hank story is sad. I hope Hank came out of it a better person and moved on to happiness.
Its a shame Christy only broke free after Jerrys death. All so sad and messed up.
as per your sitch,, divorce is welcoming. Mine went through last year and it was a relief to be no longer tied to my XW. You are at a great place.
of course the initial shock of seeing those final papers hits you, only because we never imagined it ever happening this way. We thought life was great, happy mirage, kids, house, family. This MLC, no one should be married to them in this state. They need to be alone.
Keep your path, i followed you from the beginning of my arrival here. So glad I did.
take care
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015