I guess I wrote that wrong. She did wait 2 years because a friend ran into him. *She* reached out to him to tell him this all felt wrong and she wanted to talk. He responded promptly with he hoped she was well but h simply did not want those things. He said he knew she didn't understand but that he did not want to waste anymore of her time. And he is not married or in a serious relationship. Anything is possible but I simply would be surprised if he did those things because I think he would like companionship-on his terms. She was frozen for about 2 years. She was afraid to date others because she would have to break up with them when he *came back* and told her he had made a mistake. She must have watched lots of romantic comedies because things generally aren't so dramatic.
The reason I bring her up is that I watch her and as smart as she is I've never seen a person so inclined to NOT listen to the men she dates when heir actions and words speak volumes. She dated a guy recently (great guy, awesome dad) who did not want more kids. She spent 6 months hoping he would "come around." I said, "having another human being IS a big deal." It's like she's so tired of looking and says if only they would give me what I want. She's in IC now. And she is such a sweet person but she has struggled mightily with feelings not being reciprocated.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
