Wow that's a real insight and even though I'm new into this I can totally concur the financial element. I think because I have the kids I have really focused on this element and separating him from myself financially. I know he's already in debt which he hasn't been from a year into our R when I took on the finances. And lies OMG he lies about everything and is completely rubbish at it.
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