New to the journey and thank you.

[Kylo]

... continued

So she goes to see this counselor, and I'm thinking he will give her ideas on how to repair the relationships as best as possible, since they were family and that means something. I knew that her mom would ask her to call or visit more often and she never would. So he gives here advice on how to limit contact with them, and set boundaries. I can see that, but wouldn't you try a few things first? OK, maybe not, BUT WITH A MARRIAGE? "You should get a divorce" did he forget there were two kids involved? I said maybe we should see the guy. She said that the counselor said it was a bad idea. I called him and he left a message that he would be willing to see me... Anyway, I want to keep reading and learning before I hit counseling. I want to know what to ask.