New to the journey and thank you.

[Kylo]

Thanks, Cristy. I don't know if there has been a diagnosis of anything. We went to two discernment counseling sessions, and the only purpose to those is to determine if you want to stay in the marriage or not. She decided not. She has been seeing a counselor every week. I have no idea what is going on because she doesn't tell me and I don't ask.

I will say she saw this counselor before discernment counseling, and I asked her what he said. She said "he thinks we should divorce" Wow! What a counselor! I got a kick out of that. She went to see this counselor a few years ago to figure out how to deal with her mother (extremely self-centered, or at least that's what the wife's stories relate. My wife would always come home with a "Can you believe she said this!" story. And yes, I can believe it. It was the same thing every time. I didn't know why she let it bother her so much when it was so predictable, but she would act like it was a shocker every time), and her brother (manic depressive, has been admitted to psych hospital before and has done some messed up stuff when he gets upset).
So she