I think it is a gift..we give it because we can- not because the other asks or even deserves it not for me to judge..the gift is for me..for my growth and maybe it will help the other as well we forgive so we can teach our kids to forgive we forgive and we are free-
sometimes it starts by just changing a thought from fear or hurt or anger to love:
I wish them the best I hope they are blessed I hope they are happy and have everything in Life I would want for myself
we say it each time that person come to mind eventually we believe it we do lovingly let them go It is for the best 70X7
Hi Peace :-)
i agree with it all. like i said in my reply above.. forgiveness isn't the term i like using for this inner peace we find.
Do i wish her the best or Hope she is blessed... and finds happiness.. NO> i don't. . i don't wish her any of that.
what i do wish for her to find the strength and love to be a better mom to the girls. .that is all i wish for.
as fr he letting go part.. i am gladly past that point. i wish her no harm and one day I know she will have some sort of relationship with the girls.. when they are ready.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
