Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

[peacetoday]

Some really ideas and thoughts on forgiveness

I think it is a gift..we give it because we can- not because the other asks or even deserves it
not for me to judge..the gift is for me..for my growth and maybe it will help the other as well
we forgive so we can teach our kids to forgive
we forgive and we are free-

sometimes it starts by just changing a thought from fear or hurt or anger to love:

I wish them the best
I hope they are blessed
I hope they are happy and have everything in Life I would want for myself

we say it each time that person come to mind
eventually we believe it
we do lovingly let them go
It is for the best
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