Hi Irish , just on the forgiveness thing, is it necessary or even needed ? Imho no. We move on and we let go of our upset , we let go of the love we had for them and we get on with our lives , hopefully meet someone special and live our lives.

Your Ds are going through alot , their lives would be tough anyway due to the whole teenager thing but they have so much more to deal with. Exw sending flowers is understandable but obviously so is d15s reaction.

Your doing a great job and being mum and dad. Carry on making memories that they will cherish.

Take care, Rd