Going to talk with a lawyer Wednesday in regards to getting this divorce process started. But I am not sure if this is a step that I should be taking. Db'ing is about being patient. But I know there comes a point where the WW isn't going to respect you and as long as that fog is up, nothing you do matters. Guess I want to know is if I am dropping the rope to soon and just not being patient enough with this process? There are people on this board who have worked on their WS for years before reaching this point.
Also after I talk with the lawyer should I give my W a talk about still having the option to work on the MR or just say nothing? I just want to be sure that I did everything in my power to make things right.
