I believe that this meeting may have woken her up from a Fog. IDK She has been nice and respectful and more friendly since going. All good stuff.
WAS's run hot and cold, don't read anything into it.
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The problem is she has never expressed her findings or whether she plans to proceed or not. Nothing.
If you give her space and remove all pressure from her, she may very well put it on the back burner and quit talking about it. It's not unusual.
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"I have been wondering what you found out and what your next move is?" Yea, I know sounds like an R talk.
Well it is an R talk, but if it's eating you up then go ahead and ask her. Just don't be surprised to find out she is indeed still proceeding. She may be gathering info for her L to draw up the papers. I remember early in my sitch, my W talked a lot about moving out, then she just stopped talking about it. I thought maybe she had changed her mind, so I asked her. Nope, she was still full steam ahead, she just didn't feel obliged to keep me updated. Once a W becomes a WAS, the H is the last person to hear about anything that is going on with them.
