Have learned from his financial responses thought that: a he thinks our M ended in Sept 2015...must have imagined the H was ML to me after a big anniversary dinner then or that he didn't mention D until June 2016...but by July he was on OW's car insurance! He tells me, and to be fair I believe him, that he was not unfaithful in our marriage before and that his A (which of course he doesn't accept is an A - yup, not told wife you want a divorce, still legally married...of course it's not a real A and you're not an adulterous H and her a woman who sleeps with a married man). MLC reality and dates are different! b in a fit of pique in Jan 16 ( or so, he admits that dates are fuzzy), he was so angry and full of hatred towards me that he threw the Cartier watch which was my 50th birthday gift in the Thames. He now excepts that this was stupid..d'ya think? c On a meaner note, he had a payment to an ED specialist in May & Oct 2016...his note to his L was that he had been struggling with sexual side effects of his ADs and without his psychiatrist's knowledge had stopped and restarted the meds creating an ongoing sexual problem for most of 2016. I know it's mean but that makes me feel better...what a catch of a 38 year old man he is!
Ok, meanness over and done with
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
